If you've been married for very long...
If you've been in the same job for very long...
If you have children...
If you have family...
Ahem, sounds like just about everybody.
...then at some point you must learn
when to pick your battles.
Hold on. Back that buggy up. I
suppose
first you must learn
which battles are worth picking.
For me, the road to such a decision is never ending. It's another one of those "learning processes". I must of picked every battle (and fought some
pri-tee hard) when I was younger - but the older (and hopefully wiser) I get, it all just gets to be a little too much.
It took me one failed marriage and about 3 years in to the second marriage to realize that picking battles was an option.
It took me one gigantic blow up to find out that family was family and they weren't going anywhere. It's better to pick your battles.
It's taken an inspirational father and a few good friends to
demonstrate how not only picking your battles - but also choosing to
walk away from all the battles - doesn't mean you are not "in control". Walking away from all battles can actually mean you're in complete control and fully free of the emotional baggage that goes with fighting a battle.
It's taking one very short, charming, funny red-headed little man to remind me daily that if you
don't choose your battles you can sometimes create
unnecessary chaos which can lead to a lengthy list of emotions.
Less is really so much more.
I read "
Purpose Driven Life" when it was "big" - maybe 5 years ago - but it's
surreal how now is when I feel that it totally makes sense. I want to glorify God with very single move I make - not only in "the big stuff" like my job and my relationships.
But again, I'm in a battle.
I die every day, many times a day, knowing that I want to glorify God, but don't. I see the ways that I haven't glorified Him and the second I "pep-rally" myself in to the next opportunity I get to glorify Him, it seems I fail again.
This is a battle I like being in. Because when I feel content, complacent with my actions, then I know I'm letting my relationship with Christ become stale. When I keep myself surrounded by Christian music, the Bible, when I talk to God daily...that is when the battle with the world begins. When I'm close to Jesus, I
know when the world is trying to suck me in. This is when there is a battle going on with in me. I like that battle. The world can hold so strong, but the closer I stay to what is true...to Jesus...the further away I can keep "the world". That's definitely a battle I pick.
Looks like a game face to me. Wonder what he would consider a battle?